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michael
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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by michael » 14 Oct 2019 20:10

Nic wrote: 5. When will the full Flava Baker thread be reinstated on SE23Life?
Nic,
They were waiting for your approval when i last spoke to the moderation team. Can we take this as your unambiguous approval for the reinstatement of all posts on that thread but with the thread remaining closed?
That was how the majority of forum members voted, and therefore something i want to see. I also think it is valuable for community members to judge for themselves who has been writing nasty things and who has been trolling others.
However, i doubt they will reinstate the thread even with your agreement, because the should be deeply ashamed of what happened and how some of them behaved.

Nic
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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by Nic » 14 Oct 2019 20:18

michael wrote:
14 Oct 2019 20:10
Can we take this as your unambiguous approval for the reinstatement of all posts on that thread but with the thread remaining closed?
Yes

JGD
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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by JGD » 14 Oct 2019 20:31

Nic wrote:
14 Oct 2019 20:18
michael wrote:
14 Oct 2019 20:10
Can we take this as your unambiguous approval for the reinstatement of all posts on that thread but with the thread remaining closed?
Yes
Now the devil is in the detail.

Will Chris permit this to happen and/or will the mods have reservations of the gravity and style observed by Michael.
michael wrote:
14 Oct 2019 20:10
However, i doubt they will reinstate the thread even with your agreement, because the should be deeply ashamed of what happened and how some of them behaved.
And how is new mod ForestHull to exercise his first influence?

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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by JGD » 15 Oct 2019 07:22

Chris in another place wrote: The mod team deserve a lot of praise, because modding comes at a personal cost. Every mod intervention potentially sours a moderator’s relationship with a community member. But it’s absolutely vital to moderate a community in order to keep it positive and constructive.

Some ad-hominem threads of other local forums were/are breathtakingly destructive. Kangaroo courts, conspiracy theory and mob bullying of individuals, in some cases encouraged by the forum owners themselves.

That will never happen here because we focus on community affairs, we have solid guidelines and an accountable mod team looking after the health of this community.

As the founder, I have responsibility resting on my shoulders, but obviously I am just as fallible and human as anyone. I occasionally got frustrated at people and committed fingers to keyboard as a red mist descended. But the mod team apply the guidelines to me just as any other member and my posts/topics have sometimes been collapsed, and sometimes deleted.

Thank you @Londondrz, @Foresthillnick and @applespider for years of great modding, and thanks to @ForestHull for recently joining our team and already making a strong contribution.

We’ve also seen great past moderators come and go, helping to shape the site - particularly @dave, @armadillo and @oakr, who are always welcome to return to the team.

I look forward to our next #meetup and thanks again, Ann (@topofthehill) for your support, both here and in darker corners of the web.
Chris opens with a peculiarly isolationist statement and refers to souring of mods relationships. Makes no reference to mods being members of a community nor having a responsibility to that community. Instead refers to the need to "moderate a community" as if he is policing it. No mention of the real fact that he and his mods are restricted to moderate his forum and only his forum.

Oh how we laughed when he thrashed around wildly and ineffectively trying to rain down a non-existent wrath from a range of uninterested official bodies. His efforts to wield a big stick at members of the community of which he longer is a part, came to nought.

Chris discusses how everyone else is hostile to him and how much of a paragon of virtues he is and speaks to his responsibility and obviously feels that weight on his shoulders. Unfortunately he blows his case somewhat when he repeats his fibbing tendencies and alludes to the non-existent accountability of the mod team. He does not answer the question, to whom are they accountable - a bodger from Norfolk?

Chris applauds his mods with damningly faint praise. He compounds his evident back-handed weakness by naming only those mods and ex-mods that he approves still.

It takes Starman, in a reply, to remind Chris that others of our communities have served in this role and they deserve recognition for their commitment too.

It could be argued that those not mentioned are probably grateful not to have their own community and friends reminded that they ever associated with someone like Chris.

And so we have Chris at his best and worst.

He presents us with a perfect picture of his isolated position, blaming all others on what he calls corners of the dark-web.

Chris we know you don't get it.

But the rest of us engage in and enjoy dialogue on truly open forum.

Not that shrinking little world that your hostile mind occupies in isolation.

Nic
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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by Nic » 15 Oct 2019 07:47

Chris in another place wrote: Some ad-hominem threads of other local forums were/are breathtakingly destructive. Kangaroo courts, conspiracy theory and mob bullying of individuals, in some cases encouraged by the forum owners themselves.

That will never happen here...
Re-instate the Flava Baker thread. Then people can determine for themselves the veracity of that statement.

The hypocrisy and dearth of self awareness is staggering.

Just as staggering is the fact that the thread wasn't removed by the mods because of those "destructive" activities - the forum owner AND the moderators were wilful participants... No, it was only removed when the forum owner got busted.
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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by Rachael » 15 Oct 2019 08:13

JGD wrote:
15 Oct 2019 07:22

It could be argued that those not mentioned are probably grateful not to have their own community and friends reminded that they ever associated with someone like Chris.
I will always be proud of the work I did as a moderator on the SE23Life forum. I still believe the model the early mod team developed is one of the best out there for a friendly and inclusive forum. My association with CB is in that context and I will never be ashamed of that.

Edited to say: I see Starman has expressed an interest in moderating the SE23Life forum. I very much appreciate him giving me a shout out for my moderation work there. In that context I should perhaps make it clear to the team over there that I'm not running a proxy campaign to infiltrate the mod team through Starman. :wink: He is and will always be his own man.
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JGD
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Re: Sockpuppets on t'other forum

Post by JGD » 15 Oct 2019 08:31

Rachael wrote:
15 Oct 2019 08:13
I will always be proud of the work I did as a moderator on the SE23Life forum. I still believe the model the early mod team developed is one of the best out there for a friendly and inclusive forum. My association with CB is in that context and I will never be ashamed of that.
Absolutely and your presence and input rightly recognised almost universally in our communities.

Others received a horrible and persistent public campaign of harassment from Chris - and across several media formats.

And some have had partners and companions approached by Chris or an acolyte with veiled threats or blandishments that their actions should halt.

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